M. C. A. Hogarth ([info]haikujaguar) wrote,
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The Aphorisms of Kherishdar: Emethil
For [info]archangelbeth, who wanted to know what scares the Ai-Naidar, [info]wolflady26 who wanted to know more about how they handle the mentally ill, and [info]ysabetwordsmith, who wanted to see more of other castes, and the spiritual life of the Ai-Naidar.


EMETHIL
M.C.A. Hogarth

emethil [ eh meh THIHL ], (noun) – chain; biological concept, of self as part of a long, unbroken line of blood family, from ancestors to children. Has connotations of eternity and immortality, but without the strong sense of individual persistence.

      "Permit a question," the merchant said.
      "Ask," I replied as she opened the gate for me.
      "Is this necessary, to see him?"
      I glanced at her, then said, "Yes," and walked up the path to her family's modest home. I entered before her, for though I was her Public Servant I was still a higher caste than she and her merchant family... and the need was great.
      Inside her husband, the silversmith, was prostrate on a divan. In the wan sun, motes of dust floated toward the abandoned tools on his work table. I crouched beside his head; he opened his eyes, a crack of watered amber, but he did not greet me though I wore the mulberry stole embroidered with my office.
      I rose and returned to the room's entrance, where his wife awaited me.
      "How long?" I asked.
      "Since the Physician said there would be no children," she replied. "This one... grieves, Calligrapher, but is rich in family. But he ...he is the last of his generation." She looked anxious. "Surely an aphorism...?"
      I shook my head. "This illness is greater than my art. I will return."
      By the afternoon I had been ushered into the office of one of the osulked--a Public Servant whose aegis was so broad he answered to Thirukedi Himself, rather than to any individual lord--in this case, the high priest, overseeing all the temples and shrines. We shared a caste but his rank was the greater, and so I bowed and waited.
      "Calligrapher," the old man said, smiling. "What brings you to my threshold?"
      "The silversmith," I said, for in the capital only one merchant's art was so great as to merit no other identification, "is sick of broken emethil."
      The priest rose. "I'll bring help at once."
      I waited outside while he instructed his messengers and then I accompanied him to the merchant's house. By the time we arrived, two priestesses stood beside the gate, one in the Maiden Shemena's roseate robes and the other in the green of Ganaeda, the Mother. Opening the door on such a gathering of powers flustered the merchant's wife considerably, but she could not but let them enter. I watched until they entered and then went home, disquieted.
      I heard no more of the matter until the cafe-owner's sister asked me, several weeks later, if I'd heard the sad news, "that we will have no more art from the silversmith."
      "How is that?" I asked.
      "He has become one of Ganaeda's priests," the merchant said, "and his wife has returned to her family."
      "Ah," I said, with regret and some surprise. Ganaeda's priests are a small sect, rare compared to her priestesses, but I could well imagine that this particular sorrow might drive a man to the Mother's devotions. "Hopefully he will find peace there."
      "Hopefully," she said, in shared understanding. There is no sorrow like knowing the end of one's family. No Ai-Naidari should stand outside the chain.


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[info]floorlamps
2007-10-11 12:59 am UTC (link)
This was saddening, but like all these stories, refreshing to the spirit at a time when I stand in need of such refreshment. Taking a short journey amongst the Ai-Naidar always makes my life a little less wearisome.

Thank you so much for these.

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[info]aureth
2007-10-11 01:07 am UTC (link)
I was wondering how you were going to fit all of that in...and you did. Wow.

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[info]haikujaguar
2007-10-11 04:16 am UTC (link)
*flex*

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[info]thedigitalkuri
2007-10-11 01:24 am UTC (link)
That one.. threw me at an off-chord. I think.. because.... there is love there, but I think the merchant's sadness hit me more than anything.

Good to know. *nodnod* I feel a bit bad for his wife. o.o

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[info]puffbird
2007-10-11 01:24 am UTC (link)
This sort of thing scares humans, too. My mother-in-law's mother despaired because the only grandson that bore the family name was never going to have children.

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[info]gryphart
2007-10-11 05:10 am UTC (link)
I think it depends on the temperaments involved - personally, I find the thought of being so strongly responsible for another being rather distasteful, and my family was quite okay with that choice, but I recognize that's not the norm.

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[info]haikujaguar
2007-10-11 08:11 am UTC (link)
A point of clarification for the Ai-Naidar: the feeling of being part of the chain is separate from the feeling of child-rearing. You can feel sorrow for the one and not long for the other.

But anyway, over there no one person is strongly responsible for another person. Child-rearing is done by a family... and families (as you can see from this example being presented as unusual) are very large. Mothers share this responsibility constantly with aunts, sisters, uncles, adopted-kin, cousins, etc, as well as fathers... and are as likely to be herding along nieces and cousins as their own children. It's a far more distributed system. :)

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[info]manycolored
2007-10-11 12:41 pm UTC (link)
See, I think I would want children, if I didn't have to do it all alone!

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[info]haikujaguar
2007-10-11 01:22 pm UTC (link)
I guess I shall have to visit some child-rearing Ai-Naidar, then, so people can see how they think it's sane to do it. What I'm doing right now, for example, they think is appalling. :)

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It takes a village
[info]ysabetwordsmith
2007-10-11 05:59 pm UTC (link)
I tend to agree with the Ai-Naidar. Having just one or two people raise a child creates all kinds of problems. The breakdown of the extended family is a huge loss to American culture, and it has *kept* fragmenting past the nuclear family (two parents and their children) right down to single-parent, single-child households. It's not anyone's individual fault, and not a wrongful thing to do -- but it lessens the diversity of family bonds and puts a *much* greater burden on the one or two adults raising a child.

Interestingly, the intentional community movement has noticed this and many communities work to compensate for it. A key reason why people move into one is for the childcare support. There are even a few communities that put all the kids together like a pack of puppies, and have certain adults to watch them, so the parents can work on other things.

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[info]puffbird
2007-10-11 02:27 pm UTC (link)
My cousin-in-law, I'm sure, agrees with you. :)

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[info]miintikwa
2007-10-11 01:30 am UTC (link)
Ah.

That makes so much sense. *nods* It deeply resonates, too.

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[info]archangelbeth
2007-10-11 02:32 am UTC (link)
Awwwww. *sniffle*
Thanks. Not what I expected.

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Beautiful sorrows
[info]ysabetwordsmith
2007-10-11 05:02 am UTC (link)
Sometimes all you can do is bear witness to someone's loss ... but there may be comfort in knowing that the loss is recognized, and is not unique but something others have faced as well.

The story is well told. Thank you for sharing.

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That cuts deeply
[info]dragontdc
2007-10-11 07:25 pm UTC (link)
I find myself in the silversmith's position, childless because my mate cannot bear children, alone because all the rest of my family is dead. My chain is strong, but I am the last link. Unless I can find another to help me continue it, while not demanding to also become my primary mate, the chain will be broken. There are heroes in my chain, and pioneers, and simple country folk, and even pirates and mercenaries. And I stand here, rapidly approaching middle age, knowing that without great change the chain ends with me. I feel like I am somehow failing all those ancestors.

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[info]razzek
2007-10-12 01:55 am UTC (link)
Wow. This almost made me cry. Poor silversmith...

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[info]wolflady26
2007-10-15 11:48 pm UTC (link)
Thank you for answering my question in the incense story! It was strangely timely, because I had just been thinking about the issue of the ends of chains as I translated some history about nearby castles for a friend. One of the castles was bought by one of the wealthiest and most powerful noble families in the region, and then barely 100 years later changed hands when the family line came to an end. And I was thinking how sad it was that someone had put the money and effort into buying a castle to house and protect his descendants, only to have them die out such a short time later, and what it must feel like to be the last of a lineage like that. And then came your story.

I adore your incense stories, and I'll be sad to see the last of them, even with the consolation of a novel on the horizon.

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[info]siege
2009-01-08 07:12 am UTC (link)
I do not feel this sorrow, but perhaps it is because I have not reflected fully upon my ancestors. The mating need has passed, and I have no hopes of finding a "second hand" in this lifetime.

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